Special Review Pick Up Lines that indubitably Work

“Do you come here often?”

If whatever has ever got laid from asking that in a not-ironic way then they deserve a prize. It’s clichéd and frankly, pretty stupid. Who cares if she comes here often? The way women’s minds work they are likely to start wondering if it means you’re worried she’ll see you in the same club next week hitting on distinct girls.

Another great way to start a lose-lose situation for yourself is to ask “Can I buy you a drink?” If she says no, then the conversation is over and if you try to pursue it you’ll come across as a creepy weirdo guy. If she says yes, you’ve just committed to spending money on a girl you don’t know, who if she’s British is probably going to down the drink and send her friends over to get you to buy drinks for them, too.

No-one would ask “Hi, you probably won’t talk to me unless I bribe you and get you drunk”, but when you offer a girl a drink, that’s pretty much what you’re saying.

The problem with both of these, and the hundred other lines that guys use when they think they are being sophisticated, is that they show too much interest. The truth is you don’t admittedly care how often she comes here, and you might realise that you admittedly want to get to know her without spending money for her company.

Girls know that guys want sex from them, they know that you are attracted to their bodily features. That’s why they wear push-up bras and revealing clothes that are slightly too tight. But they also like to believe that you are interested in who they admittedly are, and that isn’t something you can always collate on first impressions.

A best way to start a conversation with a girl is to do just that – start a conversation – but without showing any interest right away. Show some character, and give her a opening to show hers before you let her know you like her.

Avoid commenting on the club or the music, it’s unoriginal. If you’re asking her to agree with you on how cool the place is, you’re trying to show commonalities between the two of you to build rapport, and it’s too early to do this. First you must demonstrate that you are man she should get to know, and only then should you show interest.

The lines I’m going to advise might seem like they are coming way out of left-field. But believe it or not, these lines have been tested thoroughly by hundreds of guys who read my site and others like it. They work.

Picture yourself using them to start a conversation, even just for the first 30 seconds. In those 30 seconds the girl or group of girls will give you something else to talk about, like their accents or their attitude. These conversation starters are just to break the ice without it looking like you are hitting on them. This way they can’t react the way they instinctively react to guys who obviously want to pick them up.

So here are the Chat Up Lines.

“Hey guys, do you think I should dye my hair totally blonde?” Calling them ‘guys’ instead of ‘girls’ is very disarming. Try approaching a group of girls with “Hey guys” instead of “Hello Ladies” and you’ll see what I mean. whether or not they think you should dye your hair blonde is unimportant, their response tells you something about them that you didn’t know before and the conversation can flow from there.

“Excuse me, are you lot any good at Geography? We’re trying to remember the name of the fifth Ocean…” This sort of interrogate is great if there are guys in the group with the girl you are interested in. You can instantly make the girl laugh by teasing her about her lack of knowledge about the world, and it leads nicely into talking about travelling which is always a great branch when you are meeting people. Most population will remember Atlantic, Pacific, Indian and African, and then start guessing Seas like the Mediterranean or the Caribbean. The guys in the group often get admittedly complex in this, when this happens, just tell them you’ll look it up on the Internet and change the subject.

“Hey, we need a quick female opinion. Do girls prefer Pretty Woman, or Dirty Dancing?” If they ask why you want to know, say it’s to buy a birthday gift for a girl you don’t know very well, who invited you to her party. Depending on which reply they give you can make them laugh by teasing them that they fancy old men – Richard Gere or Patrick Swayze. If they say Dirty Dancing you can ask them if they retell to the female lead in that movie, though I wouldn’t advise doing this if they say Pretty Woman!

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